Hitachi Magic Wand

I know this particular wand is nothing new and many of you have probably already played with one, but I just got my first one. I have been waiting to write about it until I used it alone and during sex. So, the big question is, "did it get me off??" Yes it did, unlike any other vibrator ever has, over and over again.

Compare and Contrast
I found that the vibration it produced was very different than what I was used to. I have used lots of different kinds of battery powered vibrators, very successfully. The problem is they all have tiny motors. They get the job done but they just can't produce the deep penetrating vibrations the Hitachi can. I had no idea the difference it would make. Not to mention that it plugs into your wall socket so it wont lose power over time.
Another perk of the Hitachi is that it as all kinds of add-ons you can get. You can find attachments that turn it into an insertable as well as huge array of other fun accessories. I think my favorite, and maybe my next purchase, is a pillow you can insert the wand into so you can straddle the wand and grind on it however you like. It just looks like so much fun to me. Or, I could just save myself the money and make one.... dun, dun, duuunnnn!

Used Alone
I have to admit the first time I used it for just my pleasure I was so intimidated by its size, its HUGE! I had to have my partner use it on me. I came within literally 30 seconds. I was thinking to myself, "ok I'm done, that was awesome". But, no, my partner had other ideas. He went on and gave me orgasm after orgasm. They were maybe 10 seconds apart. I am multi-orgasmic, so everyone may not achieve the same results, but it's worth a shot.

Partner Use
This, if applied at the right time, can be so much fun. Near the end of a session when you can feel things coming to their climatic end, grab your friend Hitachi. For penis in vagina sex it's kinda cool because it turns your partner's penis into a vibrator, at least it feels like one. From what I am told it's pretty nice for the penis as well. As I am in a monogamous hetero relationship I am not going to comment on the applications for our gay and lesbian users. I can only imagine the possibilities, and I do on a regular basis.

I have heard some people voice concerns about it being a possible mood killer. All the fumbling around pulling out your toys and what not. I have one piece of advice for you people, plan ahead! Keep it in an easy place to get to. Mine stays at the side of my bed plugged in at all times. Get an extension cord if you have to. The fun and excitement of "spicing it up" from time to time is important to any couple's sex life. Seriously though, if you think taking the time to give your partner an amazing orgasm "ruins the mood" you are dead wrong.

To sum up, the Hitachi Magic Wand is an amazing piece of equipment that everyone should have. It is extremely versatile and deserves at least a test run. It is so much better than your everyday run-of-the-mill battery powered vibrator and only experiencing it will prove it to you. If you buy one and you don't like it, (there are a rare few that don't) it still makes an excellent, non-sexual muscle massaging device. I mean, that is what it was originally made to be anyway. So, there is nothing to lose. Go get one today. And if you don't want to venture into your local sex shop I'll be nice and leave you a link so you can buy it online and it will be delivered to you in one of those nice nondescript boxes.

Shop well and have fun. Please leave me a comment and tell me your stories with your Hitachi.

Popping my cherry!! Yay!

So, I've been thinking about doing this for some time now. I love reading blogs and lots of my friends have one, but I have never felt like I had anything to contribute. Now that my life has been turned upside down, in the best way possible, I'm ready. So, Hello World.

My original idea was to focus on the sex (because its awesome), but I thought about it and yeah it's awesome, but it's not all that there is. I'll most likely eventually get a schedule going like: Monday is mommy talk, Tuesday is social equality discussion, Wednesday is sexy time and so on and so forth, but that is something I'll figure out as I go.

For my first post I thought I would share a little bit of who I am. I just finished a questionnaire posted by a lovely youtuber named Laci Green. She is awesome and you should watch her videos. You'll probably learn something. It's fun to do, and the writing may help you sort out things you haven't yet been able to work out just yet.

Sexual Awakenings
1. How did you learn about sex?
Word of mouth.... trying new things....TV....porn

2. Were you able to talk about sex with your parents?
If "don't do it until you are married" counts as talking about it :(.

3. Do you remember your first kiss? 
Yes. It was stupid, lol.

4. Tell us about an embarrassing moment you’ve had with sexuality/a partner/etc. 
Ummm... I'll get back to you.
5. How old were you when you made your sexual debut? Were you ready for it?
I was 19, attending 'Bible College', and engaged... was I ready?? Yeah, I was ready.

Relationships

6. Are you in a romantic or sexual relationship?
Yes, yes I am.... I have both of those things.

7. Would you prefer being in a relationship or being single? Why?
I prefer being in a relationship. I like having the support and being able to bolster someone else.

8. Would you ever consider a polyamorous relationship?
I was in a polyamorous for almost 3 years it was good, but when it got to the point my now partner and I realized we were ditching everyone else to spend time with each other, we thought it was time to be monogamous.

9. Have you ever cheated on a partner?
I would say no. I have engaged in some “risky behavior” my partner at the time didn't, but nothing unacceptable.

10. What was your longest relationship? Your shortest?
Longest: 11 years. Shortest: one day

11. What do you look for in a partner?
Good with my kids. Aware of the world we live in. Non-religious at the very least and Atheist at best. Progressive politics. Crazy hot, and able to make me feel like I'm crazy hot. Kind, funny, and good with a flogger ;)

12. Do you have any “deal breakers”?
Not good with my kids. A sex-negative attitude. Scared to try new things.

Sexploration
13. What is your favorite way to ask for consent?
It's normally all body language for me. I let them know I want them with my responses to their gestures and words. I'm pretty shy when it come to a first time go around.

14. What is your favorite position?
The one with the cock in my cunt.

15. Would you/have you had a one night stand?
I have, it was meh I don't feel the need to do it again.

16. What’s your favorite place to be touched by a partner?
Hips, ass, my “butt dimples”, neck, breasts, feet.

17. Is there anything that you’ve wanted to try sexually but haven’t (yet)?
More kink!! I would like to see what it feels like to be both completely submissive and completely dominant for at least a day, lol. I am waiting for my violet want to be delivered, I think that should be fun.

18. Would you/have you had group sex (3+ people)?
I have, it was awesome, and if the circumstances were right I would consider doing it again.

19. Would you/have you practiced BDSM?
Fuck yeah, and it's awesome.

20. Would you/have you done role-play?
I would, but I'm not very good at it. I get all shy trying to portray a character.

21. What is your biggest turn on? 
There is this way he grabs my body it makes me feel like I am a sex goddess and he has to have me right this second. So I guess making me feel sexy makes me want to make with the sexy. LOL :)

22. Biggest turn off?
People who think they know what I want and try and force me into something I don't want.

23. How often do you masturbate?
Less now than I used to, but I would say at least 2 to 3 times a week.

24. What do you think is the most erotic part of your body?
My legs. I love my calves, and my ankles are awesome, and my toes are a thing of beauty. I also really love my eyes... My breasts are kinda awesome too, LOL.

Self Love
25. What’s your favorite thing about yourself?
My ability to grow out of things when they are no longer useful... like unsupported faith or an old bra. I also like that I am always learning new things and my kids are a huge part of that.

26. What’s your biggest accomplishment in the last 3 years?
When I gave birth to my third child last year.

27. Tell us one goal you have for yourself.
To make sure my kids grow into teachable, positive, loving, down to earth adults

28. How do you take care of yourself?

Taking time to shave my legs in the shower (if you have kids you know how hard that can be). Casting off society's (and my families) view of my life choices, and loving every second of it.

Hot Topics

29. Do you support a woman’s right to choose an abortion if she accidentally gets pregnant? 
Yes!

30. Do you think prostitution should be legal?
Yes, but there would need to be some regulation for the protection for all involved.

31. If you had a baby boy, would you have his foreskin removed (circumcise him)?
I didn't I feel it is something he should have a choice about when he is old enough to understand his options.

32. Should same-sex marriage be legal?
100%. It should be. The fact that it isn't now makes me sick.

33. Should comprehensive sex education be given in high schools or abstinence only?
Comprehensive!! The more understanding the better.

34. What do you want to be when you grow up?
I don't know yet.

35. Do you want to get married?
Yes. I'm poor and the tax breaks are awesome.

36. Do you want to have children?
Yes, I have them. I have 3 of them, and they are awesome. Do I want any more? Most likely, not.

37. What do you want to do for others before you die?
I want to be a part of making the world a safer, more tolerant, more loving place for myself, my kids, and future generations.

There you go! So, now you know a little bit more about me, and I'll do my best to keep up with this blog. Comment below!